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moonlight wrote:
Usually, changing structure means getting people onto your side, and you've pretty well alienated most people here.
JK wrote:
Big deal. Not the kind of people I would hang out with nor want on my side to begin with.
Or, perhaps you just like to bitch and moan like you accuse others of doing?
- moonlight wrote:
Do I think he would do it? No. And I selected a partner that holds the same values that I do. So what?
JK wrote:
You selected a partner you can control and top from the bottom in my opinion.
Because I am strong minded and know what I like and want I top from the bottom?
Because I make no bones about how I feel and think, I top from the bottom?
Because I am allowed to be who I *am*, I top from the bottom?
Because I live the way my Master has asked me to, I top from the bottom?
Because I follow his direct orders, I top from the bottom?
Oh. Yes. I am not a cow (shouldn't that technically be a heifer?) that has no life other than throwing myself into harms way at the flick of an idiot's finger to satisfy his whims no matter what danger there is to me. Therefore I must top from the bottom.
Git.
- moonlight wrote:
No, JK, that isn't *ALL* that matters. There are two people in any relationship. Even a D/s one that is a lifestyle relationship. Guess what? You are repsonsible for your slave and her happiness and her needs. It's not all about getting just what is important to you.
JK wrote:
And how I choose to do that is totally up to me and not her at all.
You lead your life in the most reprehensible manner I can imagine, refusing to take the responsibility that your actions warrant. You've said in other places that if you believe something doesn't exist, it doesn't.
This allows you to escape each and every consequence that you do not want to deal with. And I hope to Ghod that anyone that is reading this and was thinking about you as a partner thinks *very* hard about whether they want that kind of......pleasure.
- moonlight wrote:
What a selfish, cloddish way to live your life.
JK wrote:
Typical response from a slave, or whatever you call yourself, who hasn't learned to give all she is to their Master, or whatever he is.
As for my Master...How DARE you make a comment like that? He has been *nothing* but polite to you. And you don't even have the *guts* to stand up and insult him to his face. You have to insult him through his slave where he may or may not even see it....
Because you are, again, afraid to deal with the consequences. I believe that you will be seeing a response to this from him, probably right about when you see mine.
You have just proven yourself to be an idjit of the greatest caliber.
- moonlight wrote:
He isn't taking the risk here, JK. The slave is. No matter how long or loud you beat that drum, SHE is the one that will be arrested if she's caught. Not you. HER.
JK wrote:
But you are assuming they will get caught and that he will pick a garage where it is likely she will get caught. you jump to conclusions without any evidence that the text you do have leads directly to such conclusions.
Are you denying that it is not possible that the *gasp* Master might miss something? Or that he might not see something? And that that might lead to her getting into trouble?
Or are you just that lackadasical that you can't stand to admit that you might not be perfect?
- moonlight wrote:
A Master that cared about his slave would *not* put her in the position of being arrested for HIS kicks.
JK wrote:
that's probably true - assuming the risk is so high as to practically guarantee that she would get arrested - but that is strictly an assumption. If I hear you correctly - are you saying that no Master should ever place his slave into scene that had even the most remote chance for being arrested? If you are - I am afraid that you will find that there are a lot of couples who play with the risks and like it that way.
I play with risks that most people would consider to high. That's their right. I've been told I'm not "safe" because of that. That's their right too. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. And entitled to say them.
Mine happens to be that a possible run in with law enforcement is not worth my time or energy when it's simpler to avoid it.
And no, I don't feel that a Master should place his slave in the position of possibly being arrested. That shows lack of concern. Did you think that your saying that other people play differently than me would shock me or make me feel bad?
If you did, you're obviously badly disappointed.
- moonlight wrote:
I have said on more than one occasion that what Argentium and I do is decided by him. Not me.
JK wrote:
So if he choose to put you into a risky situation - would you do it or not? I mean if what you say above is true - what choice do you have??
- moonlight wrote:
There are safer ways of going about creating that image and keeping the slave in the dark completely. Risking a run in with the law is just stupid, plain and simple.
JK wrote:
I guess some of us are just a bit more daring than you are.
I'm sure that Jay gets fits when I talk about breath control.
- moonlight wrote:
I think it's sheer stupidity to play with permanently damaging a person.
JK wrote:
Fine for you, but much, much different for others.
With the underlying attitude that they are, after all, just cows and replaceable.
