24/7 V  (06/19/99)
   
 
    MsChiff123 wrote:
    Another poster, moonlight, also claimed she was in a 24/7 relationship with Dom. They, too, live in separate residences. Seems as if there's no room for her to be actually 24/7 at her Dom's house since he already has a wife, a child, some pets and another slave,
No, what I said was that there was no room for all of our *STUFF* in his current apartment. We have a lot of possessions, between the four adults. Not the least of which are enough books to fill a house by themselves. I did *NOT* say that there was not room due to the fact that he has a wife, a child another slave, and some pets. There is more than enough room for all the *PEOPLE* in the family, and the house since I spend most of my non-working time there. Or he spends a good deal of his non-working time with me.
    MsChiff123 wrote:
    Need I say more?
Actually, yes. Because it's obvious, despite having a poly*amorous* relationship, you know next to *nothing* about poly*fidelity*. And yes, they *ARE* different beasts.
    MsChiff123 wrote:
    Evidently, I "attacked" two of the more prominent residents of SSBB land. Furthermore, distorting what I say is a cheap shot at throwing insults and dismissing credibility.
Honey, you're the queen of cheap shots when you say above what you did. I *NEVER* implied that the reason that I was in a separate residence was for *any* reason other than we have to many *things*. Not that there wasn't room because of his *FAMILY*. I have news for you, honey. I *AM* a part of that family. He is, to me, as much of a husband as he is to his legal wife. If he could, we would most likely *ALL* be his wives. But there's this little thing called bigamy that the government kind of frowns on. If you ask any one of the family members, they will tell you I am *every* bit a part of the family as any one of them.

So take your "she's not living there because he doesn't have room because of all the *other* people" and shove it up your ass. If there's any room there with your head stuck so far up it.
    MsChiff123 wrote:
    When I told each of them about bladerunner and moonlight's relationship situations and their justifications that they were in 24/7 relationships, they each burst out laughing. Persons D and Y made some comments about bladerunner and moonlight living in fantasy land. Person J simply said it was another case of the Internet "raising the status of the uninformed."
"The lurkers support me in email." I would tend to think that someone that would judge another's relationship without even *hearing* the discussion and from a person who is *obviously* biased would have an opinion that would be worth the paper it's written on. Ie: worthless, since it wasn't written on paper.

*sweet smile* You see, it's terribly difficult to present an unbiased view of someone else's relationship to a third party when you already have made up *YOUR* mind that they are deluded. That tends to leak out. I'm sure that you *tried* to present the situation in a *totally* unbiased manner. But since you don't know the details of the situation, I am *just* as certain that your description of my relationship has about much relationship to reality as a drunk with DT's coming down off a binge.
    MsChiff123 wrote:
    I have no judgements against bladerunner or moonlight's devotion to their Doms
Bullshit. When you tell someone that they are not in a 24/7 relationship, you've made a judgement. You are having trouble admitting that fact. As a matter of fact, you're having difficulty with a *lot* of things, including answering questions that are asked of you.
    MsChiff123 wrote:
    (although that fact has been selectively ignored or skewed whenever I've commented on them). Devotion, admiration and service to a Dom is nothing I laugh about, nor am I discounting the value of their relationships. They're very personal issues that give them a whole lot of fulfillment and happiness. Even I'll admit J's comment about "raising the status of the uninformed" is quite harsh, but I do find that a lot of this discussion about 24/7 relationships has certainly raised the supposed status and self-importance of certain individuals in this newsgroup.
JK is an ass. If you admire what he says, that says a *WHOLE* lot about you.

I don't get into these discussions to "raise my status and self-importance." I don't give a good god damn what *you* think of it. The reason that I get involved in these discussion is something that I doubt that you could understand. The *ONLY* opinions that matter to me are those of my family and friends....of which, 95% of SSB does *NOT* apply....including your high, holy self.