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Rob wrote: I sorta see SSC and RACK as two sides of the same coin...at least for
myself. It's the underlying concept that's important, the words only help
to shape your meaning a little better. Realistically, as has been said in
far too many safe-sex education classes, the only safe sex/BDSM is none at
all. (And even then, I'm sure someone could figure out exceptions to
that.)
For me, SSC is acceptable at an early level in
experience and play. It protects the newer people
from getting in over their heads. As people progress,
however, and particularly if they start moving into
edge play, SSC becomes much less meaningful and RACK
starts to become more appropriate. I'm torn on whether
it's good to use SSC with beginners at all because of
the shift that often needs to be made as people gain
more experience.
Rob wrote: See my previous post on this subject (and please, respond to it!...it's
got
me curious to see how people perceive the differences), but basically it
comes down to the difference between "consent" versus "informed consent".
I think, when speaking about animals, consent and
informed consent is a bit of a misnomer. Animals
don't think like we do. To expect them to process
our requirements and respond in a way that we
expect is somewhat silly, from my perspective.
We use animals all the time as supplements to our
lives and our industries. From racing and jumping
horses to work and show dogs to dolphins used in
the military to locate underwater explosives and lead
servicemen to them. We take care of them and protect
them from harm and injury and they, in turn, do the
same.
Is there something special about sex that puts it
into its own category over and above all of the
other uses we put animals to? (again, speaking of
large animals where risk of injury or harm is slight)
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